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Hally:Well how about this way. I love that you get cold when it's seventy one degrees out, I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich, I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts, I love that after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Years Eve. I came here tonight because when you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of the life to start as soon as possible.

"I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve.

Men and Women Can Never Be Friends:

很多年前跟隔壁宿舍哥们一块儿看的。此电影乃他力荐。这哥们是我们系的第一名。
那个哥们毕业后去了香港。
现在我也在香港。他已经离开回家。

剧Part1的时候,他们共同去纽约,Hally说起话来没完没了,别人说他很奇怪,他反而认为是一种个性,一种独特。或许就是因为他这种性格,让他有了N个女朋友后,然后想结婚的时候找个人结婚,直到自己在婚姻中受到中伤,我不觉得他爱Helen有多深,而是Helen伤他太深,让他无法面对自己的那段过去。Part 2部分Hally变得宽容,经常思考一些东西,或许是由于12年的历练与成长,才让他能够说这些话,他找到了一个他想共度余生的人,想立刻马上开始共度余生。而Sally,是等到他说出这些话的Good girl.

I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible." -Harry's epic declaration of love

Harry Burns: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright: Why not?
Harry Burns: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: You only think you do.
Sally Albright: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns: No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not!
Harry: Do too.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So, you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No. You pretty much want to nail 'em too.
Sally: What if THEY don't want to have sex with YOU?
Harry: Doesn't matter because the sex thing is already out there so the friendship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.
Sally: Well, I guess we're not going to be friends then.
Harry: I guess not.
Sally: That's too bad. You were the only person I knew in New York.

以上仅为一点点回忆,跟电影以及此评论本身全无一点点关系。

Sally: You see, that is just like you Harry. You say things like that and you make it impossible for me to hate you. And I hate you Harry... I really hate you. I hate you.

Harry Burns: I miss her.
Sally Albright: I don't miss him. I really don't.
Harry Burns: Not even a little?
Sally Albright: You know what I miss? I miss the *idea* of him.

Jealousy:

其实没什么要写的。很多年前看的电影了,看完很喜欢并且自己也下载了一份,并保留至今。但是这么多年来再不曾完整看过一遍。之所以要写这么一个评论,只是因为恰好在这个新年之际点开了这部电影,并且恰好拖到了结尾部分。那么,就摘抄一下结尾的台词吧。

伴着“友谊地久天长”,平安之夜,一切都重新开始的夜晚,给人希望的夜晚,Sally 说这些话有点像中国女孩子,典型的口是心非,可谁看不出来她内心此刻是多么的幸福,流着幸福的眼泪,此刻的他们在想些什么?

"What I'm saying is--and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form--is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way." -Harry exlaining his entire philosophy to Sally

Sally: Well, if you must know, it was because he was very jealous, and I had these days of the week
underpants.
Harry: Ehhhh! I'm sorry. I need the judges ruling on this. "Days of the weeks underpants"?
Sally: Yes. They had the days of the week on them, and I thought they were sort of funny. And then one
day Sheldon says to me, "You never wear Sunday." It was all suspicious. Where was Sunday? Where
had I left Sunday? And I told him, and he didn't believe me.
Harry: What?
Sally: They don't make Sunday.
Harry: Why not?
Sally: Because of God.

"I'v been doing a lot of thinking, and the thing is, I love you."

看这部电影让我明白有时候不必在任何面前逞强,伤心了就伤心了,想哭泣了就想哭泣了,或许恋人或许朋友,可以毫无伪装。Sally哭这对Hally讲关于Joe的事情:" He just called me up 'wanted to see how you were', fine. 'How are you?', fine. His secretary's on vacation, everything's all backed up and he's got a big case to do, blah blah blah. And I'm sitting on the phone I'm thinking, I'm over him, I really am over him. I can't believe that I'd ever be remotely interested in any of that. And then he said I have some news. She works in his office, she's a paralegal, her name is Kimberley. (Sob, Sob.) He just met her. She's suppose to be his transitional person, she's not suppose to be the one. All this time I've been saying that he didn't want to get married, but the truth is, he didn't want to marry me. He didn't love "。

"All I'm saying is that somewhere out there is the man you are supposed to marry. And if you don't get him first, somebody else will, and you'll have to spend the rest of your life knowing that somebody else is married to your husband." -Marie on the difficulty of being single
"When I buy a new book, I read the last page first. That way, in case I die before I finish, I know how it ends. That, my friend, is a dark side." - Harry explaining his dark side

High maintenance and low maintenance:

"How do you expect me to respond to this?"

看这部电影还是让我想起了台湾的热播剧“我不可能爱你'',两个认识了十几年的朋友,他们说话总是那么有默契,知道对方性格,兴趣爱好,缺点。但都没有拍拖,原因是太熟悉了,友谊太深了怕参杂爱情这伤人的东西而失去最后的好朋友,但电视结局也告诉我们,真正的情到深处是双方的了解,而真正的了解是要通过时间和彼此共同经历的某些时光。当时对这部电视剧顶的不得了,要是大陆电视的剧情大多会是这样的,两个人热恋结婚,婚后发现彼此的缺点,性格不和,然后离婚又要考虑到道德,孩子,面子,财产,等等因素,结局可能婚姻就一直这样名存实亡;要么就是通过时间来治疗这些痛人的伤口,最后伤口好了,这生命也过了大半辈子了,最后成就了金婚,最后电视会隐隐的明白的导演的喻意,每一段婚姻都是这样的,要多包容,多忍耐,才能有这样的幸福......

"There are two kinds of women: high maintenance and low maintenance." -Harry explaining women to Sally

Sally: I'd like the chef salad please with oil and vinegar on the side, and the apple pie a la mode.
Waitress: Chef and apple a la mode.
Sally: But I'd like the pie heated, and I don't want the ice cream on top. I want it on the side, and I'd like strawberry instead of vanilla if you have it. If not, then no ice cream, just whipped cream, but only if it's real. If it's out of the can, then nothing.
Waitress: Not even the pie?
Sally: No, just the pie, but then not heated.

"How about you love me too"

原来这导演1989年就想开导我们,友谊---爱情天长地久。彼此互相结婚之前了解,坦诚相待,告诉Who is who!.....,就不会婚后因为一个盘子,一张桌子的摆放而争吵,也不用为一个8美金的盘子从婚姻受到重伤,离婚还要讨论这张沙发,那个电视是要归谁.......

"It is so nice when you can sit with someone and not have to talk." -Harry trying to break the awkwardness with Sally

Breaking Up:

"How about I'm leaving"

Harry: You know it's funny. We started out like this, Helen and I. We had blank walls, we hung things, we picked out tiles together. Then you know what happens? Six years later you find yourself singing "Surrey with a fringe on top" in front of Ira!

 "You take someone to the airport, its clearly the beginning of the relationship. That's why I have never taken anyone to the airport at the beginning of a relationship. Because eventually things move on and you don't take someone to the airport and I never wanted anyone to say to me, How come you never take me to the airport anymore?" -Pro relationship tips from Harry

Harry: Right now everything is great, everyone is happy, everyone is in love and that is wonderful! But you gotta know that sooner or later you're gonna be screaming at each other about who's gonna get this dish. This eight dollar dish will cost you a thousand dollars in phone calls to the legal firm of That's Mine, This Is Yours.
Marie: Harry!
Harry: Please, Jess, Marie. Do me a favor, for your own good, put your name in your books right now before they get mixed up and you won't know whose is whose. 'Cause someday, believe it or not, you'll go 15 rounds over who's gonna get this coffee table. This stupid, wagon wheel, Roy Rogers, garage sale COFFEE TABLE!
Jess: I thought you liked it!?
Harry: I was being nice!

"Doesn't what I said mean anything to you?"

Harry: Yes, I think that right now actually is the perfect time to talk about this because I want our friends to benefit from the wisdom of my experience. Right now everything is great, everyone is happy, everyone is in love, but you got to know, that sooner or later, you're going to be screaming at other about who's going to get this dish. This eight dollar dish will cost you a thousand dollars in phone calls to the legal firm of that's-mine-this-is-yours.

"You see? That is just like you, Harry. You say things like that, and you make it impossible for me to hate you." - Sally after Harry's declaration of love

Basic nightmare date of your ex:

"Im sorry, Harry. I know it's New Year's Eve, I know you are feeling lonely, but you just can't show up, say you love me and expect that to make it all right. It doesn't work this way!"

Harry: Please, Jess, Marie, do me a favour for your own good, put your name in your books right now, before they get mixed up and you don't know who's is who's. Because one day, believe it or not, you'll go fifteen rounds over who's going to get this coffee table. This stupid, wagon wheel, Roy Rogers garage sale coffee table!

"All this time I've been saying that he didn't want to get married. But the truth is he didn't want to marry me. He didn't love me." -Sally sobbing after she finds out her ex is engaged

Sally: Is Harry bringing anybody to the wedding?
Marie: I don't think so.
Sally: Is he seeing anybody?
Marie: He was seeing this anthropologist, but...
Sally: What's she look like?
Marie: Thin. Pretty. Big tits. Your basic nightmare.

"Then how about this way? I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out; I love that it takes you 1 & 1/2 hours to order a sandwich; I love that you get a little crinkle here when you look at me like I'm a nuts; I love that after I spent a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes; and I love that you are the last person that I wanna talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely or because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you wanna spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life start as soon as possible."

PS一段影评:非常喜欢影片的一个安排,哈利和萨莉的故事每过一段,都会插入一个片段:一对对夫妻微笑讲述着他们相遇相知相守的过程。他们有的夫唱妇随,有的默然相随;有的从一而终,有的百转千回。但相同的是,他们都白发苍苍,他们都满目安详。那可能不是热恋时炙热的满目柔情,可那是执手经历风雨走到最后的坚定执着。友谊---爱情天长地久。

 "Because of God." -Sally of why they don't make Sunday in the days of the week underpants

Getting Back Together:

"You see? That is just like you, Harry. You say things like that and you make it impossible for me to hate you....And I hate you, Harry....I really hate you...I hate you...."

Jess: Marriages don't break up on account of infidelity. It's just a symptom that something else is wrong.
Harry Burns: Oh really? Well, that "symptom" is fucking my wife.

Sally: You see? That is just like you, Harry. You say things like that, and you make it impossible for me to hate you!

其实我还是喜欢看爱情片的。因为很美好。
关于男友之间是否存在友谊的观点,不得不说,其实我是同意Harry的。

 "Nothing. Its just that all men are sure it never happened to them and all women at one time or other have done it so you do the math." -Sally on faking orgasms
"You know, you may be the first attractive woman I've not wanted to sleep with in my entire life." -Harry to Sally

Sex:

"You look like a normal person but actually you are the angel of death." -Sally to Harry

Harry: Had my dream again where I'm making love, and the Olympic judges are watching. I'd nailed the compulsaries, so this is it, the finals. I got a 9.8 from the Canadians, a perfect 10 from the Americans, and my mother, disguised as an East German judge, gave me a 5.6. Must have been the dismount.

 "I'll have what she's having." -Rob Reiner's mother reacting to Sally's faked orgasm

Harry: You know, I have a theory that heirogliphics are just an ancient comic strip about a character named Sphinxy.

Harry Burns: The fact that you're not answering leads me to believe you're either (a) not at home, (b) home but don't want to talk to me, or (c) home, desperately want to talk to me, but trapped under something heavy. If it's either (a) or (c), please call me back.

Sacrifice:

Harry Burns: Right now everything is great, everyone is happy, everyone is in love and that is wonderful. But you gotta know that sooner or later you're gonna be screaming at each other about who's gonna get this dish. This eight dollar dish will cost you a thousand dollars in phone calls to the legal firm of That's Mine, This Is Yours.
Sally: Harry.
Harry Burns: Please, Jess, Marie. Do me a favor, for your own good, put your name in your books right now before they get mixed up and you won't know whose is whose. 'Cause someday, believe it or not, you'll go 15 rounds over who's gonna get this coffee table. This stupid wagon wheel ROY ROGERS GARAGE SALE COFFEE TABLE!
Jess: I thought you liked it!
Harry Burns: I WAS BEING NICE!
[he leaves]
Sally: He just bumped into Helen.

Harry Burns: And was it worth it? The sacrifice for a friend you dont even keep in touch with?
Sally Albright: Harry, you might not believe this, but I never considered not sleeping with you a sacrifice.

 "Harry, you might not believe this, but I never considered not sleeping with you a sacrifice." -Oh snap! Good one, Sally

Should you take your significant other to the airport?

Harry Burns: I've been doing a lot of thinking, and the thing is, I love you.
Sally Albright: What?
Harry Burns: I love you.
Sally Albright: How do you expect me to respond to this?
Harry Burns: How about, you love me too.
Sally Albright: How about, I'm leaving.

Harry Burns: You take someone to the airport, its clearly the beginning of the relationship. Thats why I have never taken anyone to the airport at the beginning of a relationship.
Sally Albright: Why?
Harry Burns: Because eventually things move on and you dont take someone to the airport and I never wanted anyone to say to me, How come you never take me to the airport anymore?
Sally Albright: Its amazing. You look like a normal person but actually you are the angel of death.

Sally Albright: At least I got the apartment.
Harry Burns: That's what everyone says. But, really, what's so hard about finding an apartment? What you do is look in the obituary section. You see who died, find out where they lived, and tip the doorman. What they could do to make it easier is combine the two. You know, Mr. Kline died yesterday, leaving behind a wife, two children, and a spacious three bedroom apartment with a wood burning fireplace.

Can women and men be friends? Take Two

"You made a woman meow?!" -Jess reacting to Harry's latest sex story

Harry: Would you like to have dinner? ...Just friends.
Sally: I thought you didn't believe men and women could be friends.
Harry: When did I say that?
Sally: On the ride to New York.
Harry: No, no, no, I never said that. ...Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are
involved with other people, then they can. ...This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted. ...That doesn't work either, because what happens then is, the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship and why do
you have to go outside to get it? And when you say "No, no, no it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship," the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are. I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends.

But I'd like the pie heated and I don't want the ice cream on top I want it on the side and I'd like strawberry instead of vanilla if you have it if not then no ice cream just whipped cream but only if it's real if it's out of a can then nothing." -Sally's crazy ordering

High maintenance and low maintenance, take two

(Reference: IMDb "The 25 Best Quotes From 'When Harry Met Sally'" from )

Harry Burns: There are two kinds of women: high maintenance and low maintenance.
Sally Albright: Which one am I?
Harry Burns:You're the worst kind. You're high maintenance but you think you're low maintenance.

Relationships:

Sally Albright: You know, I'm so glad I never got involved with you. I just would have ended up being some woman you had to get up out of bed and leave at 3:00 in the morning and go clean your andirons, and you dont even have a fireplace, not that I would know this.

[Harry and Sally discussing orgasms]
Sally Albright: Most women at one time or another have faked it.
Harry Burns: Well, they haven't faked it with me.
Sally Albright: How do you know?
Harry Burns: Because I know.
Sally Albright: Oh. Right. Thats right. I forgot. You're a man.
Harry Burns: What was that supposed to mean?
Sally Albright: Nothing. Its just that all men are sure it never happened to them and all women at one
time or other have done it so you do the math.

Rest of your life:

Harry Burns:I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

Sheldon:

Harry: Shel? Sheldon? No. You did not have great sex with Sheldon.
Sally: I did too.
Harry: No. A Sheldon can do your income taxes. If you need a root canal, Sheldon's your man. But humping and pumping are not Sheldon's strong suits. It's the name. Do it to me, Sheldon. You're an animal, Sheldon. Ride me, big Sheldon. It doesn't work.

Dark Side:

Sally: Amanda mentioned you had a dark side.
Harry: That's what drew her to me.
Sally: Your dark side?
Harry: Sure. Why? Don't you have a dark side? I know, you're probably one of those cheerful people
who dot their "i's" with little hearts.
Sally: I have just as much of a dark side as the next person.
Harry: Oh, really? When I buy a new book, I read the last page first. That way, in case I die before I finish, I know how it ends. That, my friend, is a dark side.

Marie: All I'm saying is that somewhere out there is the man you are supposed to marry. And if you don't get him first, somebody else will, and you'll have to spend the rest of your life knowing that somebody else is married to your husband

Dog:

Harry: You know how a year to a person is like seven years to a dog?
Sally: Is one of us supposed to be a DOG in this scenario?
Harry: Yes.
Sally: Who is the dog?
Harry: You are.
Sally: I am? I am the dog? I am the dog?

Meow:

Jess: You made a woman meow?

Dating a married man:

Marie: The point is, he just spent $120 on a new nightgown for his wife. I don't think he's ever gonna leave her.
Sally: No one thinks he's ever gonna leave her.
Marie: You're right, you're right, I know you're right.

Not:

Harry Burns: The fact that you're not answering leads me to believe that (a) You're not home, (b) You're home but you don't want to talk to me, or (c) You're home, desperately want to talk to me, but you're trapped under something heavy. If it's either (a) or (c), please give me a call.

“I love you”:

Harry:I've been doing a lot of thinking, and the thing is, I love you.

Sally: What?

Harry: I love you.

Sally: How do you expect me to respond to this?

Harry: How about, 'You love me too'?

Sally: How about, 'I'm leaving.'

Harry: Doesn't what I've said mean anything to you?

Sally: I'm sorry Harry, I know it's New Year's Eve, I know you're feeling lonely, but you can't just show up here, tell me you love me and expect everything to be all right. It doesn't work that way.

Harry: Well how does it work?

Sally: I don't know, but not this way. (Walking away)

Harry: Well how about this way. I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out, I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich, I love when you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts, I love that after I've spent the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to begin as soon as possible.

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